Normally I don't particularly like the beach very much. Maybe that's just because I take to much notice to the people around me and just get very uncomfortable about what may be going on in their lives. Am I the only one who does that? But the other day I decided that I would go out to the beach and meet up with some friends. Now this may sound weird but this was quite a big decision for me as I am not very comfortable being with a big group of people. I much prefer to just hang out with one or two really close friends. There has been many instances where I was invited somewhere and I just decided against going because I would much rather stay home by myself and watch my favourite Youtubers or go onto Pinterest. This time however I called up my best friend who I knew was going and said "I don't want to, it's just going to be me and a bunch of couples. Can't you just come over and we hang out just the two of us?"... She said she was going to force me to go :(. I don't even know why I don't like big group scenarios, I've never had a super bad experience or anything I just don't feel comfortable with it I guess. If your a bit like me please let me know in the comments if you have any tips or stories about facing your fear or going out. In the end she convinced me to go and I had quite a nice time. It was nothing elaborate or anything, just a very simple day. Now I'm not trying to make a big deal about this and inspire you to face your fears and it will all be great because I am still quite nervous about it. I just thought I would share my experiences and tell you that more times then not everything will be completely fine. Now, because I don't want to be a hypocrite I am going to try to take my own advice and go out more often when I am invited (which is not very often haha) and I wanted to share that with you. And to end off here are some of the pictures I took whilst at the beach :). Thanks for reading and have a great day.
PS. I wanted to tell you because I am super proud of myself. I am trying to face my fears so I invited the friends I saw at the beach round to my house tomorrow and thats not something I would normally do so wish me luck! I hope it all goes well.
If you are reading this I just want to say thank you very much and please keep reading my posts, it would make me very very happy! And also I hope that what I am writing is somewhat interesting/ useful or whatever. :)
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